I am not going to lie, I am one of those “Gosh Darn Independents.” Greek life is for some people and definitely not for others. But that is what preserves the enthusiasm that those involved in Greek life have. The eagerly anticipated Recruitment Week is when this excitement and camaraderie reaches its epitome.
I have never chosen to rush and know I have made the right decision for myself, but I also cannot help but be just a tad bit envious. The sense of community is undeniable and is hard to miss throughout the recruitment process.
These few days can be a thrill for both those already involved and those newcomers being welcomed. The singing, slip-n-slides and solidarity are exhibited throughout campus and Greek Row giving many a person reason to stop and witness the immense community engagement.
The fraternities and sororities work extremely hard throughout this process to demonstrate their houses’ collective personality and their togetherness. Each has their own traditions, and upholding these each year strengthens the bond between brothers and sisters.
Fresh faces are embraced with open arms, bright smiles and a rejuvenating sense of Greek life spirit. Tons of networking keeps the friendships forming all weekend long. Girl flirting initiates those sisterly bonds, and guy flirting is the beginning of many a “bromance.” Regardless of whether or not individuals decide to take the leap into Greek life by the end of the week, they have made literally hundreds of acquaintances or friends, people they can now wave to or chitchat with anytime, anywhere. This helps cultivate a sense of belonging and acceptance for those seeking some reassurance.
And there really is a place for almost everyone. If you love “Toms Shoes” philanthropy, maybe Delta Gamma is for you. If you are passionate about your Latino heritage check out Sigma Lambda Beta. If you’re really into broomball you might find your home in Beta Theta Pi or if you have a pet turtle perhaps you will gravitate towards Delta Zeta. Every house has something unique to offer and even individuals not expecting to be enamored with Greek life have been pleasantly surprised.
If you find it is not your thing there really is no harm, no foul and there are plenty of other ways to become engaged in the DU community. But if you did not rush this year, maybe in the spring or next year, give it a go. It never hurts to reach out to new people and build relationships. So let us have “snaps” for all of our DU Greek houses that made Recruitment Week about bringing people together and celebrating community engagement.